Basketball - Dealing with Adversity

Basketball is just a game, however, it is also something that our kids - and we as parents - can invest a lot of time, emotions, effort and thought. When we don't measure up to the world's standards of success - winning on the scoreboard and posting impressive individual stats - it can get discouraging. I hurt with our girls as they struggle to deal with this fact.

At the same time, I rejoice as I see them dig deep into themselves and respond with godly character. They initiated and have faithfully continued having devotions before each game. They spend the time, noting on the white board before the game how they want to contribute to the team. I challenge them about making the sacrifice to improve and be the best they can be for the team, and they respond by showing up early to practice, by working on the specific areas that I challenge them on. That is winning in Christian way.

God does not guarantee worldly success if we obey Him and do the right things. However He does say that He will reward His children for that obedience in His way. Your daughters are learning that lesson through the method of a basketball season. Pray for their perseverance.